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10 Sexy Ideas for the Bedroom
By Elaine Jacelle
Published on 08/17/2007

Remember those times that the bedroom used to be the sanctuary of romance and kinkiness for you and your partner?

Whether on vacation or at home - here are some sexy ideas

Some couples who had been so used to living together may equate the bedroom to routine and boredom. But remember those times that the bedroom used to be the sanctuary of romance and kinkiness for you and your partner? It is the most common place where couples get intimate. I came up with sexy ideas for the bedroom, which varies from nice to naughty activities, props or just any creative idea that would surely please your partner and eventually add spice to your relationship.

1. Dress to be undressed

Have you been in the so-called comfort zone that you now only wear sloppy oversized shirts and plain pjs when you go to bed? For a change, get yourself a cute lingerie and surprise your honey. According to my guy friends, they love to see their girl in matching lacey underwears. This is quiet easy, but the bottomline is learn to be comfortable in your own skin. This is not just for his sake but for your sake too. He’d surely return the favor for your sexy effort.

2. Breakfast in bed

You may be a certified lazy girl who finds it hard to get up every morning but you may want to try this one once in a while. Wake up early and prepare something tasty for your partner and have a light conversation over breakfast. This will start the day right for the two of you. Brace yourself for a steamy action when he comes home later tonight.

3. Soften the lights in the bedroom

Make the ambiance of your room romantic by changing you white fluorescent bulb into a softer yellow shade. When you’re naked, too much brightness brings out your imperfections more. A dimmer shade on the other hand, brings a more cozy and sexy feel inside the room.

4. Simple note

Leave a kinky note for your partner on a visible part of the room before you step out. This will surely rev up his excitement. (Tip: Post-its would do.)

5. Give your bedroom a makeover

Bring out the silky satin sheets. Turn your love nest into a romantic setting. You may also want to rearrange the furniture to make it feel like you’re in a new place. By doing this, you kill the boredom brought about by too much familiarity in that area of the house.

6. Give him a sensual massage

Treat your man into a sensual massage. This will help him de-stress and be more relaxed. Be sure to touch him on his most erotic zone but save the best for last. You may also want to get on top of him when you’re done and start the real action. Trust me, guys love it when their partners initiate the act.

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7. Aromatherapy

Mix these sensual oils together and cast your love dovey the sexual spell. Try rose and sandalwood as a mood enhancer. You could also apply a few drops of oil to his body while giving him with a good massage. Also, when you prepare the bath tub, leave few drops of these oils too.

8. Watch a sexy movie together

Get a bottle of wine and watch a sexy movie together. Choose a movie were the lead stars make love whenever they get a chance. Porn is too straightforward so opt for something wherein you have to anticipate what their next hot action will be. I personally like The Thomas Crown Affair.

9. Fun role play

Well, I am not a sex guru but from experience, role-play is exciting. It’s actually up to you and your lover on how creative you’d want to be.  For the props, you may want to add blindfold, hand cuffs and other necessary stuff. (Tip: Fishnets are cheap and it’s perfect for rough moments when you want him to rip them off!)

10. Pillow fight
Act like kids together! Pillow fights will remind you of your younger carefree days. Challenge his competitive side. Flirt while fighting and you’d definitely end up getting passionate.

I hope you enjoy these tips.

The most important tip for success in the bedroom

I would also like to add that you should also see to it that the room is tidy in clean. Get the mess out of site before thinking about doing these sexy things!

Nothing destroys the mood like a dirty bedroom full of socks, filthy underwear, toilet paper rolls etc.