Help! You’re invited to a lingerie party, and you just don’t know how you shall cope with this? Read on for advice from a lingerie-salesman:


There is a brand new trend in the world of parties to arrange lingerie parties, so choosing the right lingerie for the lingerie party is extremely important. There are two key places where lingerie parties will occur, either in the privacy of a person’s home or you may even be invited to a lingerie party at a club or bar.

Different types of lingerie parties
Some of the lingerie parties that my team and I have been invited to have been based on a theme, like bondage, fairy lingerie, 80′s, fluro or camouflage lingerie. Each of these has its own challenges in choosing the right type of sexy lingerie.

Sexy not nasty
The key with any lingerie party is to look sexy not nasty. Quite often people who go to these parties simply wear the wrong type of lingerie to look sexy. The key to sexy is more is less. That is, often it is better to wear more of an item than less.

For males, going to a lingerie party, the most appropriate attire to wear are satin or silk boxer shorts or long pants and a robe. I will say though, wearing a mankini is not the right type of lingerie for any lingerie party.

For the ladies it can be a little harder depending on your body type. I know that many of my clients do not like the g-string and this is particularly true of our plus size clientele. The key to choosing the right lingerie is to be comfortable. If what you are wearing doesn’t make you comfortable then don’t wear it.

So what is the solution?

Well let us look at a number of options. If you are a slimmer or thin lady, then wearing a babydoll with a g-string and gown is certainly a great lingerie ensemble to wear. Lets face it, some ladies just don’t like either a g-string or thong, and if this is you then, simply substitute it for a pair of satin or silk boxer shorts or long satin pants.

There are lots of different brands of unisex pants available by brands like Dreamgirl.

Alternatively you could have chosen a spandex body suit and stockings with a pair of silk boxer shorts to accentuate your legs and to keep them smooth and silky.

Chemises are another fantastic style of lingerie that you can wear to look sexy to a lingerie party. A chemise can be made of spandex mesh, satin or leather. The chemise is designed similar to a slip but is generally for use in the bedroom. The key issue when choosing a chemise is to make sure that it suits your body type.

If you are a plus size person there are a great range of plus size chemises available. Try to choose one that is appropriate for the party you are going to, like a non-see through chemise for a public party but a more revealing chemise for a private party.

If you really want to look sexy remember these key things -

1. Choose the right shoes
2. Buy a Sexy Piece of Lingerie that suits your body type
3. Accessorise the Lingerie with Costume Jewellery
4. Wear stockings
5. Always wear what you feel comfortable in
6. More is less can be sexy

If you are looking for sexy lingerie and accessories visit Dreamy.com.au. They have a range of both plus size lingerie, costumes, babydolls, chemise, corsets and more.

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