10 tips for real women on how to dress sexy for clubbing

Not all women have a slim figure (like the self-confessed vain-glorious me) but everybody has the right to party! You may not have the stick-thin model look, but sexiness is all about attitude. Here are few tips to real women who want to look fabulous when they hit the club!

1. Go with the right stiletto

Choose the right trendy heels you’d be comfortable wearing all throughout the night. Never try too hard wearing 4-inch heels. Some women choose very annoyingly high heels and they complain about suffering from sore feet. How can you dance the night away if your shoes won’t permit you? But flats are not appropriate for clubbing, so go for something in between.

2. Don’t compromise comfort for style

You may be doning the hottest piece of dress, but if you look awkwardly uncomfortable in them, you’d end up being “Miss Pathetic of the Night”. If you borrowed it from a friend, make sure it fits you.

Moreover, secure your undies in place. At parties, it’s really disgusting to see girls who keeps on fixing their bra straps while dancing. Choose a strapless bra instead but if you’re afraid that they will fall off, wear a clear bra strap. Do not ever consider wearing nipple covers or nippits when you don’t have perky breasts.

3. Sexy not Slutty!

Sexy does not imply that you have to bare it all and not leave something to the imagination. When wearing a top which shows your most coveted cleavage, don’t pair it with something which almost displays your undies. Going out in a piece of clothing which is see-through all over is not highly recommended. Also, if you are not a Playboy cover girl, avoid the whore-style ultra-fitted black leather pants.

4. Highlight your best feature (and cover in disguise what you don’t like)

Yes, if you have it, flaunt it. If you have nice pair of legs, wear something that will draw attention to them. Note: Highlight only one feature at a time. If you emphasize everything, the looker will be so confused.

For heavy girls, wear something darker to create an illusion of a smaller body. Don’t wear something tight, it will emphasize your curves at the wrong places. Know your body type and dress according to it.

5. Keep yourself updated with the trends

I don’t advise that we worship the trends and make those beauty magazines your bible, but at least be up-to-date. Do not wear a dress which will make you look like you just stepped out from another era. (Tip: Stop borrowing you Mom’s clothes, unless she’s a fashion guru).

6. Play with accessories

Accessorize but do not be too happy wearing your accessories all at once. Bring attention to one key accessory and be more subtle on the others. If you choose to focus on the must-have necklace. Stay simple on the bracelets, scarf etc. Try to stay sophisticated and classy. Your hand bag and shoes does not have to be of the same color.

7. Don’t be afraid to experiment and show your own style

It’s better to be a trendsetter than just copying other people’s style. Be unique. When you are at a club, expect that 101% of the girls there exerted an effort to pull the look they have tonight. Don’t let yourself be one of the unknown faces in the crowd. Add spice to the common style and stand out.

When you go out with your girls, you do not have to be a copycat of each other. Your get-up does not have to be coordinated with your friends’ style. Don’t go out like you are some kind of a Pussy Cat dolls or Spice girls about to perform.

8. Don’t only look sexy, but smell sexy

Some girls looks stunning but when you go near them, you’d be turned off with how smelly and sweaty they are after coming from the dance floor. Spritz a sexy scent to disguise your hideous smell (chuckle).

9. Be Realistic

I’m not here to tell you how to make your tummy appear smaller, or how to make your legs look longer. Don’t have a distorted view of your body image. Don’t be in denial about your size and insist that you’re a size 6 when you’re a size 10. Wear something that flows a little when you move. Sway with a sexy silky satin fabric. Lacey pieces are also cute and feminine.

10. Every woman should know this rule: Panty lines are not hot!

I think this is self-explanatory.

To all the girls out there, don’t look like you’re trying too hard. Have a nonchalant aura and stop being overly self-conscious. Stay laidback, cool and confident and you’ll surely have a good time. Accept the fact that the world is not fair and we can’t all be the socialite brat Paris Hilton!


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  • tictac
    11 Aug 2007 | Permalink | Reply

    nice point on the stilletos!

  • kc
    11 Aug 2007 | Permalink | Reply

    hey, good tips!

  • James King Auckland
    11 Aug 2007 | Permalink | Reply

    There's nothing you can do to disguise the fact that you're a fatty troll bitch… Just accept the fact that you're an ugly hooer.

  • figueroa
    16 Aug 2007 | Permalink | Reply

    hey, how does Elaine look like? Tell her she's got a fan here!

  • doesnt matter
    19 Aug 2007 | Permalink | Reply

    this bitch shld put up a pic of hers, shld tell us wht she does(other than writing such stupid articles)

    looks like she is shadow boxing n taking her frustation our writing stuff…when in reality shez hiding her ugly face under some dustbin

  • Anonymous
    20 Aug 2007 | Permalink | Reply

    does not matter, yeah we need to see how this bitch looks like ( I think I like her though!)

  • curious
    21 Aug 2007 | Permalink | Reply

    Hey we deserve a pic of how ur writers look like! This biatch is claiming she's slim or watever! PROVE it!

  • Anonymous
    22 Aug 2007 | Permalink | Reply


  • Teee
    30 Nov 2007 | Permalink | Reply

    Pretty trite & obvious. I was really hoping I'd learn something new, and I'm not even an avid clubgoer!

  • Michelle
    23 Oct 2008 | Permalink | Reply

    There is nothing wrong with being yourself. I happen to be on the heavy side, and I like how I look. Call me an ugly hooer if you want. I’ll even admit to it. I AM an ugly hooer. OK? Feel better now? I’d love to see a pic of you, james. LMAO. You are most likely this short, balding, obese, lame idiot who has the tiniest dick on the face of the earth. Am I right? Yes, I am…So, to make up for your loser existence, you take comfort in trashing women. Heavy women. How classy is that? Loser. Get a life. Well, it’s probably too late for you to do that, LMAO…

  • bootsy
    19 Mar 2009 | Permalink | Reply

    awesome advice. especially the heels. if you do go with 4 inches or higher…it can be very comfortable if you get the heels with suede cushion (i usually do this) you can practically run in those. all the stripper platform shoes have that cushion, but if you look around you can find them in single sole (not stripper shoes). i like shopping at http://www.trendyheels.com they have lots of choices and customer service helped me in past find shoes that i was looking for that they didnt have on their site

  • Anonymous
    2 Jul 2009 | Permalink | Reply

    I agree with Teee. I was hoping something not so obvious. You can change the name “10 tips for first date” and the article would flow smooth.

  • Dick M.
    24 Nov 2009 | Permalink | Reply

    How about this advice: ladies if you want tips on how to “dress to impress” perhaps instead of asking homosexuals or other women you should ask straight guys once in a while. While I am NOT homophobic, I do acknowledge that there is some truth in most stereotypes, and I grant that gay guys are very fashion-savvy while straight men generally know dick about fashion.

    That said, while women and gays are typically better for fashion advice, us heteros know what we like. I may lack fashion sense, but I can tell you what I find sexy and what I do not give a shit about.

    “1. Go with the right stiletto.”


    LESSON #1: Ditch the high heels! Real men HATE elevated footwear, be it pumps, platforms, heels. High heels are one of the stupidest inventions in human history! What is the point? They look painful and uncomfortable, they look ridiculous. Yeah, they make you look taller but what guy wants that? Within a given ethnic group, the difference between average male and female heights is about as great as the typical high heel or platform height. That means that roughly half the women are taller than men where the women are in heels. I am slightly taller than average for a guy, but last time I was at the bar, nearly half the women were about my height or taller. Most men expect to be taller than most women by a comfortable margin. For some of us, the female sex is intimidating enough at several inches shorter, imagine the unease felt when most of the women tower over us. And that’s supposed to be appealing?

    You say that flats are not appropriate for clubbing. Says who, and more importantly, WHY? I do not see why chicks can’t look good in flats. I sure do not want to see broads towering over everyone like giraffes. High heels are tacky and ugly. They make women hobble about in a clumsy fashion and make annoying hoof noises. There is nothing sexy about a girl of otherwise average height elevated to over 6′ and clumsily galloping about or complaining about how much her feet hurt.

    As for points 2, 4, 6, 7, 9, and 10; granted!

    As for point 3, sexy is not necessarily slutty and vice versa. (Though obviously men and women differ on their extent of agreement with that statement.) I am aware that there is more to it than wearing less. However, you recommend high heels, which are extremely slutty, and extremely unsexy. There may be a correlation between being scantily clad and being sexy/slutty, but high heels are one of the exceptions that manage to be slutty without being sexy. After all, many guys, myself included, tend to associate heels/platforms with strippers, porn actresses, and prostitutes; or with drag queens and trannies. Isn’t that the exact opposite of what you ladies want? So on that note, I think the irony is lost on you.

    Regarding point 5, remember that MOST guys (a) know dick about fashion and (b) do not care too much about how stylish you may be. So on that note, I am probably behind on the latest fashions. However, I do not get why so many girls think it’s fashionable to sport those ridiculous bob haircuts. Wearing last year’s style is one thing, wearing a style from last century is an entirely different matter! Bob cuts are not attractive and they are the haircut of the 20th century. It is now the 21st, let the bob die!

    As to point 8, I have noticed that many of the same women in clubs/bars who LOOK great smell awful, usually worse than the guys! For all the guidos who wear way too much cologne, at least it’s better to err on that side of caution. Many girls think they are so hot that if they dress up and merely look clean and well put together, it does not matter if they smell like a combination of sweat and stale seafood. This is something I notice because in nightclubs, and most bars nowadays, the music is too loud so you have to put your lips on other peoples’ ears just to be understood. (Which is why I hate most bars and clubs.)

  • john a
    9 Jan 2011 | Permalink | Reply

    Dick, it sounds like someone has a BAD case of short man’s syndrome (you). Heels are sexy. Only tiny insecure men get mad when women wear them. lol!

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